This little gem: it does a body good.

Welcome to our new peeps! So happy you’re here. As Tim Ferriss said, “people don’t want more information about their problems. They want solutions to their problems.” Below in pink you’ll find five super important posts. The regular Monday post I send will make a lot more sense after you read the pink. And if you haven’t received your Aunt Bea copy just write to me at: Wendy@theInspiredEater.com and I’ll shoot it right to you.

• Begin Here
• This Metaphor Is My Constant Companion as I Preserve My Weight Loss After Age Fifty
• Brownies for Breakfast
• 6 Pillars of Losing Weight After Age 50
• How to Conquer Your Evening Sugar Cravings

Follow me and the Inspired Eater on Instagram. This was a recent post:

Pearl One

When my boys were toddlers, I had a new mom-friend who also had a toddler ask me if I’d like to walk on a specific trail with her that week with the three kids. I didn’t even stop to think and responded, “I don’t feel comfortable going somewhere so desolate and empty.” (I’ve always been a cautious human.)

My friend responded, “I just couldn’t live like that.” But I didn’t hem or haw, I simply said “no, I don’t walk in isolated areas.”

I didn’t feel the need to bring up horror stories or in any way explain myself. I just said politely, “no.”

It occurred to me – as I was maintaining my original weight loss — that I’d slowly morphed into someone who’s assertive about her smart eating habits too.

Don’t get me wrong, there are situations when I get flustered like when I’m dealing with an enraged person, purchasing an expensive item like a car or staying mum when friends make strong political comments that I don’t agree with (I tend to change the subject).

What I Figured Out

Through many years of maintenance, smart eating became a nonnegotiable in my life. It didn’t matter if I was traveling, grieving or breaking a foot, my smart eating habits became, like my fingernails, always there.

What I noticed is that becoming assertive about my food choices turned out to be a foundational pillar to successfully maintaining my weight loss for a lifetime.

What do I mean about becoming assertive with your smart eating habits? Let me give you some examples:

• I let everybody in the house know they need to keep their “treats” out of site, so they’ll be out of mind. One great thing about aging for me is that if a family member hides the junk food, I entirely forget it’s even there.
• When I go for lunch with friends – I examine the menu in advance – and usually get two sides: a side of brown rice and a side of grilled veggies. If these food items aren’t available, I order a salad that leaves out heavy cheese and the like. Greek salads with feta cheese is a cheese that’s fine. In a Mexican restaurant I might order a small bean burrito. But whatever food I’m ordering, I’m confident and precise in asking for what I want.
• I’m assertive when I plainly state to myself, “Living at a certain weight matters to me — and it matters that it matters!”
• I’m also assertive with my own self. I have an inner dialogue running throughout the day like, “Yes, let’s have that sandwich for lunch. Yum!” or “no ma’am, we don’t eat cake like that anymore” or “yes, it’s my birthday, but I really want to continue my no-cake challenge for the full year!”

Transforming into an “assertive food person” isn’t an overnight thing. It’s more step-by-step.

I’m proving to myself, one smart self-assertion at a time that consistency builds confidence for the long haul.🎃

Pearl Two

Our writing prompt pearl to use with our journal.

Ask yourself these questions:

• In general do you stand up for yourself?
• When are you most assertive?
• Where are the sticking points?
• Do you see a common factor in the times when you’re most assertive?
• Same question about your difficult moments.
• In thinking back to the people who raised you, how did assertiveness come into play?
• If assertiveness played out more like aggression, how did you respond?
• What examples of assertiveness have you seen in life?
• What do you think about becoming more assertive when it comes to staying on the Smart Eating Path? 🎃

Pearl Three

Sequencing is taken directly from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). The purpose of sequences is to help us move from reacting to circumstances to responding. I encourage you to do a sequence a day in your journal. Powerful stuff. Apply to your own life.

Automatic Sequence

• Situation (be super concrete): Mara lost 45 pounds in her forties and kept the weight off for years, until the pandemic hit. She worked from home, but lives with — and cares for her — aging mother, and her last child has left for college.
• Initial thought: I can’t handle all of this happening at once! And it doesn’t help a bit that I’m the heaviest I’ve ever been.
• Feeling: Frantic and fear. Loneliness too.
• Action: She attempts to overcontrol her mother and even her son in college. She’s supposed to be working from home, but mainly she’s been doom-scrolling.
• Results: She struggles through “the mess” (her words) that has become her life.

Chosen Sequence

• Situation (be super concrete): Mara lost 45 pounds in her forties and kept the weight off for years, until the pandemic hit. She worked from home, but lives with — and cares for —  her aging mother, and her last child has left for college.
• Chosen thought: Seriously? My life feels like I’m on Candid Camera. All of this “fun” hitting at once is annoying, but I’m doing something different this time: I’m consciously taking deep breaths, and noting where the magic is in daily life.
• Action: Mara begins a journal that reflects small magical moments in her life. Mara writes about her relationship with her niece that’s only deepened through the years, a specific friend who touches Mara’s heart, and loving and nurturing her rescue fur-baby.
• Result: She writes in the mornings and keeps her magical moments in mind as she goes forth about her day. 🎃

Pearl Four

Books love us and want us to be happy

Do I have a great book-dessert for you. It’s one of those books you might have been assigned in high school and avoided reading or read some and then stopped. This story is historical fiction at its very best.

Written by Pearl S. Buck in 1931, The Good Earth introduced the Western world to the daily lives of Chinese peasants. Born in West Virginia, Buck moved to China as an infant when her missionary parents relocated. She spent over forty years living there, which allowed her to portray peasant life with remarkable authenticity.

Buck won the Pulitzer Prize for The Good Earth and went on in later years to receive the Nobel Prize in literature. But this is not a boring classic best left for high school classes. Oprah said about The Good Earth, “It’s juicy as all get out!”

I highly recommend — a thousand-percent book-dessert! 🎃

Pearl Five

Writing for our group is one of my magical moments in life!

♥, Wendy

You know the scoop: I’m an Amazon affiliate. If you buy from a link in my post, I’ll receive money, but the arrangement won’t cost you a dime.

Are you new to the Inspired Eater? Welcome!! This blog won’t make much sense until you first read the Aunt Bea post (and you’ll find Aunt Bea on this page to the right under my short bio). On your cell you’ll see it immediately following the first post. After you enter your email address, the Aunt Bea article will be sent to your email’s inbox. If it’s not there, you might check the spam folder. And always feel free to email me at Wendy@TheInspiredEater.com and I’ll get Aunt Bea right to you!!

I am not an expert, doctor, surgeon, nurse, dietician, or nutritionist: the information within TheInspiredEater.com is based solely on my personal experience and is not intended to be used as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

Hello! We have new thrivers – and  welcome!! – I’m sharing five super important posts for you to read in pink below. I send a regular Monday post and it will make a lot more sense after you read the pink. And if you haven’t received your Aunt Bea copy just write to me at: Wendy@theInspiredEater.com and I’ll shoot it right to you.

• Begin Here
• This Metaphor Is My Constant Companion as I Preserve My Weight Loss After Age Fifty
• Brownies for Breakfast
• 6 Pillars of Losing Weight After Age 50
• How to Conquer Your Evening Sugar Cravings

I urge everyone to read or reread The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg and Atomic Habits by James Clear. I use these two books to uplevel everything we now know about weight loss.

Let’s begin!

Pearl One

October can be a trigger-month for many of us because our brain shouts, “OMG! The candiest season is here!”

So if you realize that your candy-gene is lobbying hard for the cause, that’s your signal to plan how your smart eating will roll in October. Yes, actually sit down and write an October Master plan.

Look at your calendar for the thirty-one day’s in October and jot down where your obstacles will meet you head-on. On my list you’d find: the weeks before Halloween itself and the day of are both tricky for me. There’s also a Halloween get-together that will involve a lot of calories that will likely cause trouble for me too. And then to the October plan I add: what I’ll do exactly to take the obstacles down.

This is what I do to get through the month happy and in control:

• Hunger + feeling tired + grocery shopping equals nothing that benefits you and me. I definitely plan to eat a smart snack in my car before hitting the grocery store (in my cold-tote I put in apple slices, hard boiled egg with salt, containers of yogurt, a banana, tiny whole wheat pumpkin muffins etc.). I walk into the store relatively full and not interested in eating.
• When I shop I purposely stay out of the candy/seasonal aisles (this goes triple for Costco!). Don’t tempt yourself by even looking in the direction of the candy aisles (that’s how the store gets us).
• If you love handing candy out on the day of Halloween, buy it as late in the month as possible and only the kind that you don’t like.
• But you say that you like all the candy? In that case, pick your least favorite or consider handing out Play-Dough or stickers instead. (I’m serious; this is for those of us who are easily triggered by candy and holidays).
• Keep in mind that you can bail on the holiday altogether by darkening the front porch (a favorite author of mine does exactly this) and hide in the bedroom (with a great book).
• If you love the holiday, rather than eating candy, invest in other ways that are fun like decorating your front porch, creating a beautiful Halloween centerpiece for your dining table, or even dressing in a costume to hand out candy. (One of my sons wears his Dad’s old Darth Vader costume to hand out candy. It’s hilarious!)

The main thing to repeat to yourself throughout the month is that Halloween falls on one day of the year only, so join me in zig-zagging around the candy-obstacles one hurdle at a time.🎃

Pearl Two

Our journal-writing prompt pearl.

• When October rolls around: how do you celebrate the new season?
• Are you triggered by chocolate or other candy?
• How do you return to smart eating if you do fall off the path?
• What do you think about handing out play-dough?
• What’s the hardest thing about vigilantly living on the Smart Eating Path?
• How can you make it a smidge easier for yourself?
• What are your most favorite smart foods you can have on-hand for yourself to make October more fun?🎃

Pearl Three

Initial Sequence

• Situation (a hard-core fact): Monica is in a book club that meets one Thursday every month.
• Initial thought: Darn it, I always eat at book club. There’s food and wine, and it’s fun to eat and talk.
• Feeling: Monica is annoyed with herself.
• Action: She tries to power through the book club meeting and stay away from the food which sometimes works, but often doesn’t.
• Result: She’s at a loss for how to handle the situation.

Chosen Sequence

• Situation (a hard fact): Monica is in a book club that meets one Thursday every month.
• Chosen thought: I’m committed to rooting out the obstacles in my month (like food at the book club) and plan how I’ll eat for my success.
• Feeling: Very pleased.
• Action: Monica plans to fill her cold-tote with little bites that she loves and, while still in her car, eats so that she arrives at book club relatively full. She fills her plate with veggies and fruit and a mini quiche. She’s not that hungry so making smart food decisions is much breezier.
• Result: Eating in her car before the meeting begins has made book club less stressful in navigating food and more fun to hang with friends talking about books.🎃

Pearl Four

I once knew a couple who had kids and had been together for many years when – their last kid was in college — the handsome husband said, “I’m out” and left his wife for the secretary at work. Nobody saw it coming. The woman, always battling weight, stopped eating due to severe depression. It was so sad and hard to watch. (This couple actually reconnected and are still together.)

Well, the book I’m suggesting today is a look at the lighter side of having your husband bail on you.  Lillie – a nurse-midwife by profession — isn’t hurt that her husband wants to leave their marriage just as their son goes to college, she’s furious. Out of the Clear Blue Sky is Kristan Higgins’ latest novel showing us how humor and resilience can help us navigate emotionally rough times. If you want a book-dessert that combines wit, warmth, and emotional heart-tugs this is your read! 🎃

Pearl Five

Here’s where I would love your help. I’m starting to post on Instagram every day: the posts will include smart food suggestions, a fantastic quote and how to get out of tough eating spots. I’d love for you to come aboard!

Last week on Instagram I shared my thought on a story in the news. Two AZ lawmakers were being being rude to each other.

Enjoy this-mid October weather! And as always if you liked the post, your friend might too. I’d appreciate it so much if you’d share!

♥, Wendy

You know the scoop: I’m an Amazon affiliate. If you buy from a link in my post, I’ll receive money, but the arrangement won’t cost you a dime.

Are you new to the Inspired Eater? Welcome!! This blog won’t make much sense until you first read the Aunt Bea post (and you’ll find Aunt Bea on this page to the right under my short bio). On your cell you’ll see it immediately following the first post. After you enter your email address, the Aunt Bea article will be sent to your email’s inbox. If it’s not there, you might check the spam folder. And always feel free to email me at Wendy@TheInspiredEater.com and I’ll get Aunt Bea right to you!!

I am not an expert, doctor, surgeon, nurse, dietician, or nutritionist: the information within TheInspiredEater.com is based solely on my personal experience and is not intended to be used as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

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We have new thrivers – and  welcome!! – I’m sharing five super important posts for you to read in pink below. The regular Monday post I send will make a lot more sense after you read the pink. And if you haven’t received your Aunt Bea copy just write to me at: Wendy@theInspiredEater.com and I’ll shoot it right to you.

• Begin Here
• This Metaphor Is My Constant Companion as I Preserve My Weight Loss After Age Fifty
• Brownies for Breakfast
• 6 Pillars of Losing Weight After Age 50
• How to Conquer Your Evening Sugar Cravings

Thank you for joining us!

Pearl One

A million years ago, I did PR for a non-profit sanctuary called the Performing Animal Welfare Society (PAWS). The sanctuary rescues former zoo animals, “actor” animals from Hollywood, and elephants from circuses. (In 2016 Ringling Brothers stopped traveling with elephants and re-homed these poor guys to land in Jacksonville, Florida.)

But here’s why I’m telling you this: one night when the sanctuary was still new, the couple (Pat and Ed) who founded and ran PAWS (and lived on the property) heard odd noises outside that that they didn’t normally hear. With a flashlight Ed decided to have a look and found his shed’s door wide open. Turns out, a black bear named Sweet William (rescued from Hollywood) got out of his structure, went into Ed’s shed, and was found in the dark pushing the mower on the grass imitating what he’d seen Ed do for years.

Human beings are just like Sweet William. We’re wired for connection look at others to see what they’re up to and how they’re handling life.

Being social animals, we want to participate with the group. But it’s important to note who’s in your group. Here’s how our friends and family can sway us to the dark side:

• If we hear that our friends rifle through their kids’ Halloween stash, we might think “now there’s an idea.”
• If family loves their holidays layered in 10,000 calories, we figure it’s easier to just “go along to get along.”
• If our partner wants a heavy dinner with wine every evening, we feel funny – and it somehow feels wrong — to make two dinners.

The leap from “eating with the gang” to eating that lines up with something you dearly value (being in control of your weight) can feel like a solitary, sad food-experience. It’s vital to make a habit of giving yourself soothing self-talk.

It’s an important challenge to acknowledge within yourself that it’s difficult to watch others eating the cake and ice cream appearing to have “all the fun.”

While you sit crunching your petite carrots.

But here’s your takeaway: acknowledge to yourself that if you pine to eat with your friends and family, congratulations, you’re normal. It’s a natural inclination to want to participate in what everyone else is doing. It’s in our DNA to eat, eat, eat when our people are chowing.

But sometimes the larger groups aren’t headed in the right direction and following the herd can mean running straight off the cliff.

Cigarettes are a great example: everybody smoked. It was cool and classy at the time. These days it’s a dangerous addiction that can kill (my dad, never allowed to smoke in the house, finally gave them up saying, “I kind of miss my little friends.”).

Yes, those trumpeting the ultra-processed food (UPF) are doing a stellar job at bringing attention to the world saying, “this ‘food’ we’re eating is dangerous for us.” I love their message. If you want to read more, I highly recommend getting the scoop here.

But there’s good news: we can participate in what our tribe is doing for the holidays. We only need to gain the skill of being present with our family and friends as we maintain our Smart Eating Lifestyle. If you know a big eating-event like Christmas is on the horizon, plan how you’ll engage with family, friends and coworkers in the month of December that doesn’t involve food.

For example, in my planning I might write, “instead of eating all of the calories at Christmas, this year I’m taking all the kids for a bike ride or if they’re babies, a stroller ride or both.” Then I don’t only plan a new activity, I also plan to have tools in easy reach like my cold-tote with an ice block using these and these. I layer in great bites for myself. On tough days I also plan to Eat Before I Eat, and I maybe have a bite or two of what’s being served (as long as long as I won’t be triggered).

Keep what you value most close to your heart and watch the change unfold. ♥

Pearl Two

Our writing prompts pearl.

• Do you have people in mind who encourage overeating?
• Do they take no, thank you as an answer or do you end up feeling pushed?
• What happens internally for you when someone you care about pushes?
• How do you feel about going against the grain on your Smart Eating Path?
• Do you like to stand out or do you prefer to be private?
• How do you maintain the umbilical cord that runs from you to your value system (smart eating)?
• What do you think about having an internal self-soothing voice?
• What would you tell yourself? ♥

Pearl Three

Sequencing is taken directly from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). The purpose of sequences is to help us move from reacting to circumstances to responding. I encourage you to do a sequence a day in your journal. Powerful stuff. Apply to your own life.

Automatic Sequence

• Situation: Sophie stood looking at the dessert tray, fork in hand.
• Initial thought: She could indulge or stick to the salad she’d planned.
• Feeling: Sick and tired of the whole “weight loss” thing.
• Action: Angry, she eats the salad.
• Result: That weekend, she goes off her eating plan entirely. Back in her old cycle – start smart eating plan, get tempted, back to a food-porn lifestyle over and over.

Chosen Sequence

• Situation: Sophie stood looking at the dessert tray, fork in hand.
• Chosen thought: She could have this dessert or eat “my bland salad.” She realized that she needs to create more exciting lunches for herself. (This was a huge aha for her.) She’ll only be able to avoid the dessert if she has something equally as great to eat.
• Feeling: Resolve to fix the lunch obstacle.
• Action: She goes online and finds easy recipes to make her meals snazzier and more engaging. When she leaves the house she has a cold-tote and an ice block. She’s looking forward to eating her egg salad sandwich on her favorite Trader Joe’s brand bread (whole wheat), her Siggi’s yogurt cup, and red grapes to sweeten up her yogurt.
• Result: She racks up mini-wins throughout the coming weeks by making it a habit to ignore the dessert tray and looking forward to having her cold-tote small bites. ♥

Pearl Four

Oh, boy. I had a tough week. I found plenty of great books, but they just weren’t what I have in mind as a book-dessert. So, I’ll bring back my forever favorite author Min Jin Lee. She wrote Free Food for Millionaires (excellent) and years later came out with Pachinko that’s on my top ten list as being a favorite. You will love both books. ♥

Pearl Five

If you haven’t yet read The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg, you’ll thank yourself later. I reread this one every other year. I highly recommend. I switch it up with Atomic Habits by James Clear.

Here’s where I would love your help. I’m starting to post on Instagram every day: it’ll include smart food suggestions, an inspiring quote and how to get out of tough eating spots. I’d love for you to come aboard!

Have a wonderful week!

♥, Wendy

You know the scoop: I’m an Amazon affiliate. If you buy from a link in my post, I’ll receive money, but the arrangement won’t cost you a dime.

Are you new to the Inspired Eater? Welcome!! This blog won’t make much sense until you first read the Aunt Bea post (and you’ll find Aunt Bea on this page to the right under my short bio). On your cell you’ll see it immediately following the first post. After you enter your email address, the Aunt Bea article will be sent to your email’s inbox. If it’s not there, you might check the spam folder. And always feel free to email me at Wendy@TheInspiredEater.com and I’ll get Aunt Bea right to you!!

I am not an expert, doctor, surgeon, nurse, dietician, or nutritionist: the information within TheInspiredEater.com is based solely on my personal experience and is not intended to be used as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

Today we’re modern cavewomen!

Hello everyone!

We have new thrivers – and  welcome!! – I’m sharing five super important posts for you to read in pink below. The regular Monday post I send will make a lot more sense after you read the pink. And if you haven’t received your Aunt Bea copy just write to me at: Wendy@theInspiredEater.com and I’ll shoot it right to you.

• Begin Here
• This Metaphor Is My Constant Companion as I Preserve My Weight Loss After Age Fifty
• Brownies for Breakfast
• 6 Pillars of Losing Weight After Age 50
• How to Conquer Your Evening Sugar Cravings

Pearl One

Let’s talk important vocabulary that I infused into my supportive self-talk. Beating ourselves up internally might’ve once given the illusion of “helping,” but really ran us off the cliff.

Going Cavewoman

This is the name I give to the part of our brain that kept the saber tooth kitty from eating our greatest of grandmas. Back in the day, our girl was formidable at finding food and “overeating” whenever possible, knowing she’d store fat for the lean times when she needed every last calorie for her herself and her babies.

But today, you and I don’t live in her world, we live in food-gone-wild central and don’t need to eat every calorie in sight. As I’ve written, when our weight starts dropping, the cavewoman — perceiving the threat of hunger — wakes up and moves quickly to find the highest calories around. So, if I let myself get too hungry, the ice cream is always looking better and better, thanks to my cavewoman.

Keep your cavewoman chilled and sleeping in her cave by not panicking her. Hunger panics her. Small bites especially in the afternoons and evenings are how to keep her quiet and allow your prefrontal (handles logic and planning) to take the wheel.

The Modern Plateau

Remember plateaus from decades ago? How we’d be on a diet humming right along losing weight beautifully, until we hit a plateau and couldn’t get our weight to budge?

We were taught to believe plateaus were bad and that only linear progress mattered. And if our weight loss wasn’t linear we must “be doing something wrong.”

To make it all more confusing, in the middle of the last century, two guys came up with the “weight setpoint” theory saying that our weights will always return to each person’s genetic makeup.

But here’s what happened for me: I noticed that I’d lose five-pounds, and hit a plateau. I don’t know where I got the idea, but when I was losing the 55-pounds it occurred to me to call the plateaus “holding.” It seemed to me that if I “held” my new weight to a certain number for two weeks or more, I’d begin losing again. My thought is that my body needed time to get used to the new-normal and once my body was used to the new number, I would then go back to losing.

Your Eeyore and You

I’m about to sound heartless, but we’re now in a boundary-setting moment: when you’re putting so much effort into shifting to the Smart Eating Lifestyle, it’s too much to ask of yourself to also tolerate the Eeyore-people.

When you’re trying to bring something so important to life (your weight impacting your health both physically and mentally), plan to prune the sad sacks of your friends and family. You don’t need to hear, “Another diet?!” “It’ll never work.” “We’re all doomed.” Eyores might seem pathetic and cute, but they’re actually dangerous to getting to and sustaining a lifetime-weight loss.

In conclusion, keep your cavewoman quiet, embrace your plateaus and boot your Eeyores. ♥

Pearl Two

Our journal-writing pearl prompt.

• What do you think about your cavewoman brain and your prefrontal brain?
• When is your cavewoman active? When is your prefrontal most front-and-center?
• Can you imagine calling a plateau “holding” — while your weight stabilizes — when you’re shooting for a lifetime loss? Do you worry that it’ll feel too slow? What’s important about having a “fast” weight loss? How will you support yourself in slowing down?
• Who are the Eeyores in your life?
• When you think about your Eeyores, what feelings come up?
• Write about how you’ll handle the Eeyores.
• Now think about what you’d love to most hear from a supportive cheerleader. If there’s a cheerleader in your life — like you love Taylor Swift — what does she tell you on a daily basis? ♥

Pearl Three

Sequencing is taken directly from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). The purpose of sequences is to help us move from reacting to circumstances to responding. I encourage you to do a sequence a day in your journal. Powerful stuff. Apply to your own life.

Initial Sequence

• Situation (be super concrete): Nancy realizes that it’s Halloween in one month.
• Initial thought:  She loves eating candy that she otherwise never sees and – let’s be honest — the Halloween candy is so cute and little.
• Feeling: Dread. Looking forward to the peanut butter cups, but she’s also feels angry at herself for succumbing to the candy every year. In the end, she thinks that the candy is so tiny that one can’t be a big deal.
• Action: Nancy keeps swinging from one end of the spectrum to other: I want candy, I shouldn’t eat candy. I want it, I shouldn’t eat it. Back and forth all month long.
• Result: She eats one Twix bar and is triggered into eating twelve small packages of Butterfingers, Peanut Butter Cups, and – who knew they had these — Peanut Butter M&M’s. After eating she goes into beating herself up mode.

Often people need to do a middle sequence right here that takes us to the following sequence.

Chosen Sequence

• Situation (be super concrete): Nancy realized that it’s Halloween in one month.
• Chosen thought: In the past she overate the candy. This October she wants to stay on her Smart Eating Path. She really doesn’t want to overdo the candy again.
• Feeling: pride that she’s choosing herself and her wants over the October candy-fest.
• Action: In a written-out plan, Nancy went over her calendar making note of when the obstacles will present in October. She finally determines that the grocery store and Costco are the biggest problems for her.
• Result: To keep herself tethered – like an umbilical cord – to her October plan, she re-reads her plan throughout the month making notes on what is working and what’s not. Given her plan, she decides that she’ll eat a peanut butter and jelly sandwich (or something similar) in the car before walking into the grocery store. And she makes it to November having eaten zero Halloween candy.

Pearl Four

I’m just now diving into Snow Flower and the Secret Fan: A Novel by Lisa See. I’ve never read a Lisa See novel, but hear she’s remarkably wonderful. This title — Snow Flower — was tied with The Island of Sea Women as being my online book club’s most favorites out of all Lisa See’s work (she’s prolific, so it’s surprising that I’m just now getting to her).

If you’ve read and liked her books, I hope you’ll share in the comments below. I have no doubt that Snow Flower and the Fan will be a tasty book-dessert. ♥

Pearl Five

We had some excitement over the weekend with my young adult son, 22, and the family car. Nobody got hurt and that’s what matters most.

And again, if you’ve enjoyed this post I hope you’ll share it with others!

♥, Wendy

You know the scoop: I’m an Amazon affiliate. If you buy from a link in my post, I’ll receive money, but the arrangement won’t cost you a dime.

Are you new to the Inspired Eater? Welcome!! This blog won’t make much sense until you first read the Aunt Bea post (and you’ll find Aunt Bea on this page to the right under my short bio). On your cell you’ll see it immediately following the first post. After you enter your email address, the Aunt Bea article will be sent to your email’s inbox. If it’s not there, you might check the spam folder. And always feel free to email me at Wendy@TheInspiredEater.com and I’ll get Aunt Bea right to you!!

I am not an expert, doctor, surgeon, nurse, dietician, or nutritionist: the information within TheInspiredEater.com is based solely on my personal experience and is not intended to be used as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

Being racehorses in weight loss land was never real. We’re sea turtles: slow and adorable.

Pearl One

You and I are wise to the ways of yesteryear’s diet-cartel with their unsustainable “lose two pounds a week”, but then saying nothing at all about how to maintain. So, women in the last century, had no option but to live the classic yo-yo existence. But today, in 2025, we’re now peering decades into our future understanding that maintaining our precious weight loss is the real challenge and requires new tools, mindsets and habits.

The habits we embed today will have our back decades from now.

That said, I want to caution you – as you go about your daily – not to enact massive change all at once such as using new weight loss cookbooks with all new recipes that call for ingredients you’ve never heard of; setting your alarm for a new early wake-up time, or beginning a rigorous workout that can’t be sustained. Too many changes at one time burns us out and is inauthentic to our deeper self.

Don’t overdo change. Know at your core that establishing strong habits around food and weight, take time and deliberate focus.

Returning to the old diet mentality of yesteryear versus making a lifestyle shift: two totally different things.

What important habits do I suggest installing into your daily? These are the habits I would go for in the beginning of a big lifestyle shift.

My favorite study out of England (2009) concluded that it takes 66-days to instill a smart new habit. The good news is that only the first two weeks are most challenging. Here’s what I’d need to be set in stone in the beginning:

• I’d embed the idea that losing weight after 50 is akin to having a part-time job. The very thoughts gives me 20 hours every week to spend on myself allowing me to shift from yo-yo eater to someone who rocks the Smart Eating Lifestyle. I know that recommitting to the job description every morning when I wake up is crucial.
• I’d stop eating after 6 p.m.
• I would breakfast like a king, lunch like a princess and eat dinner like a pauper. That’s all I would suggest doing for the first month or two.
• When I was fully confident that my first three habits were no longer on Bambi legs, I’d put into place tracking my food meal-by-meal day by day. (Get a pretty notebook, spiral-ringed like these.)
• I’d prep food for the week on Sunday afternoon to make life easier on myself once the week starts.
• Next, in my habits tool chest I’d include “eat before you eat.”
• Then I’d create the habit of using a cold-tote every single day filled with bites I loved.
• Finally, I’d put journal-writing into place (I recommend spiral-bound like this one.)

Whether you’re losing, stabilizing (once called plateauing) or maintaining say to yourself every day, “I’m not working on my weight, I’m working on strengthening my habits.”

Given that each habit takes 66-days to embed, you can see how slow your first year – or more – can take ingraining strong habits.

If you’re thinking “well, it didn’t take me that long to establish strong habits: that’s way too slow.” I worry for your lifetime-loss. You want to think the very opposite of what was once said about weight loss: take the pounds off quickly, you’ll be a size 8 tomorrow.”

No. The animal does not exist.

Remember, a lifetime loss isn’t about quick fixes; it’s about staying the course, day by day. Every small step forward matters. Just slow the roll to experience the best results. ♥

Pearl Two

Our journal writing pearl.

• You grew up in the get-thin-fast culture. What do you think of the idea of keeping our cavewoman none the wiser by going slowly to take off weight for a lifetime?
• If losing quickly is important to you, could you slow your roll maybe by fifty percent?
• Explain to your journal how going quickly worked in the past.
• Which habits would you most like to develop in the coming year?
• Define a plan to put the habits into place.

Pearl Three

Sequencing is taken directly from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). The purpose of sequences is to help us move from reacting to circumstances to responding. I encourage you to do a sequence a day in your journal. Powerful stuff. Apply to your own life.

Initial Sequence

• Situation: Jennifer’s mom passed and left her money.
• Knee-jerk thought: I need a new car, a trip to Europe and trips to Lake Tahoe for snow skiing.
• Feeling: Woo-hoo!
• Action: At Christmastime Jennifer is drinking Café au Lait in Paris.
• Result: The money she inherited is dwindling.

Chosen Sequence

• Situation: Jennifer’s mom passed and left her money.
• Chosen thought: I know that I have a strong tendency to not think before I spend because I always “need” stuff. Could get out of hand quickly. Instead, I’ll invest in CDs at the bank.
• Feeling: Jennifer feels a boost of happiness.
• Action: She invests the funds for use in her retirement which her mom would have loved.
• Result: Her initial investment actually makes money for her.

Pearl Four

I’m just today dipping into The Island of Sea Women but what I’ve heard from trusted sources is that a) this book is immersive and difficult to put down and b) the author, Lisa See, rocks and all of her novels are masterpieces: Snow Flower and the Secret Fan, The Tea Girl of Hummingbird Lane, and Lady Tans Circle of Women.
 

Pearl Five

It’s a five-star day. My very surly son just came over to me to share a beautiful, small porcelain pumpkin he bought at a fair. It’s a beautiful piece of art. It’s glazed in blue and just gorgeous.

But he wanted to show me something: yay!! Now I have to look cool and like nothing happened otherwise he might retreat into surly mode.

I hope you’re doing well and have many blue pumpkins in your near future!

♥, Wendy

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Investigate what triggers you to overeat. Journal-write about your emotional, situational and vacation triggers.

Pearl One

When I was losing the fifty-five pounds and today preserving the original loss, it became obvious that even when I was grooving right along eating all the smart food, I’d eventually hit a road bump. I’d have a bite of this or that and be triggered into the abyss. For me it was anything cracker or chips (love half a box Cheeze Its). I don’t think I’ve had anything crackerish for at least the last fifteen years.

And I’m here to report that there were many times when I was on the downhill path to chowing the food-porn. I learned that I needed to investigate why, when and how I fell off the Smart Eating Path. I needed to go deeper into what was undermining my life’s dream and plan.

What became clear is that along with trigger-food, I also had trigger-emotions, trigger-times of day and trigger-days of the week. Others can be triggered by a holiday. And many are triggered by the end of a fabulous trip. I could see what triggered me:

• Being tired and/or hungry.
• Feeling lonely (in a house full of people).
• Getting seriously bored.
• Being scared of a transition like a move or an empty-nest.

Overeating or “going off” my eating plan came down to me getting triggered by being somewhat hungry. I figured out that I only needed food-food, but I was so out of touch with my stomach that I thought I actually wanted junk food. I was wrong. I learned through trial and error that I didn’t need to eat a sleeve of thin mints. What I needed was apple slices dipped into peanut butter.

Our triggers don’t get the final say, we do. Trust your stomach, pay close attention to your needs, and you’ll discover strength you didn’t know you had. Proceed gently with yourself; awareness is where real change begins. ♥

Pearl Two

Our journal writing pearl. Questions are based on pearl one:

• After a food free-for-all, write about what happened today (or throughout the week) that got you to this place?
• Look at your own personal calendar: what days were the most difficult leading up to overeating? And how we’re they difficult? What was your response?
• What food triggers you?
• What life-situation trigger you? What one habit are you ready to shed? And for the best book on trading a bad habit with a great one: read or reread Atomic Habits by James Clear. ♥

Pearl Three

Sequencing is taken directly from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). The purpose of sequences is to help us move from reacting to circumstances to responding. I encourage you to do a sequence a day in your journal. Powerful stuff. Apply to your own life.

Automatic Sequence

• Situation: (be very concrete): Kate’s two adult kids both asked her to move closer to them so she can help with the grandkids. Kate has lived in a town by the ocean for eight years.
• Knee-jerk thought: OMG, now what am I going to do. I love it here. But of course, I love my grandkids.
• Feeling: panicked and trapped like there’s no way out of this problem.
• Action: stalks around her home. Calls a friend “to vent.”
• Result: After a lot of back and forthing, Kate calls her two kids and agrees to move to her daughter’s town, but with plans to visit her son more often.

Chosen Sequence

• Situation: (be very concrete): Kate’s two adult kids both asked her to move closer to them so she can help with the grand kids. Kate has lived in a town by the ocean for eight years.
• Chosen thought: How wonderful both young families want me around.
• Feeling: warm, happy.
• Action: Kate puts together a plan based on her own needs.
• Result: She tells kids what she can and cannot do, but whatever happened she’d keep her home near the ocean. ♥

Pearl Four

Pearl four is an amazing book recommendation; not a review, just an awesome book I want to share

In pearl four I’m suggesting an amazing book recommendation to substitute in for a regular dessert. I’m not writing a specific review, just an awesome book I want to share.

I had a hard time finding a great book-dessert — either super absorbing or crazy-inspirational — so I’m suggesting two phenomenal books from last year.

Last year I featured Life After Life by Kate Atkinson a beyond awesome book. A quick rewind: We meet Ursula first as a baby. We watch her go through many lives before she completes a satisfying experience for her final life. I highly, highly recommend Life After Life. A God in Ruins is Kate’s sequel to Life After Life about her little brother – although each book is stand-alone — and is equally as good.

The New Yorker wrote, “This follow [to Life After Life] tracks Ursula’s brother, Teddy, a favorite son who flies an RAF bomber during the Second World War and remains kind, thoughtful, and patient through a life of quiet sadness. Teddy, unlike his sister, lives only one life, but Atkinson’s deft handling of time, as she jumps from boyhood to old age and back, is impressive.” Haven’t finished, am loving. I leave it by my bed and I only read when I’m escaping the kitchen.” ♥

Total book-desserts!

Pearl Five

If you haven’t yet read Atomic Habits by James Clear, you’ll thank yourself later. The audio is supposed excellent too.

iI you enjoyed this post, please send to a friend. (And thank you.)

♥, Wendy

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Our cavewoman is a party girl who eats, drinks and spends as if you don’t have a mortgage.

Pearl One

Note:  this very cool eating style is meant to be paired with the eating plan you’re already using and the Royal Eating Plan. Even better, add in book-desserts.

I once knew of a woman who wanted to be thin so badly she fantasized about going to the hospital and being knocked unconscious for six months and fed through an IV drip. Her plan was to wake up thin.

She wasn’t serious of course, but if this fantasy were legal, I think we’d have lines out the door and around the corner with those ready for the Sleep Thin experience. (I’d be at the head of the line.)

From this woman’s IV drip idea came my Drip, Drip, Drip way of eating.

What I’m about to share is a power-tool for those times when you need a little something extra to get you back in the swing of the Smart Eating Lifestyle.

Here’s How I do It

I start in the morning and have what I want to eat for breakfast the only two rules being that one, I must be finished eating by 9:00 a.m. and two, I couldn’t overeat breakfast so that I’m not truly hungry at lunch.

The plan is to eat every hour on the hour throughout your day and evening. So from 10 a.m. , 11 a.m., Noon and so forth all the way to 6 p.m.

Do this often enough and I think you’ll find what I found. Planning to eat every single hour wasn’t really necessary. I came to see that two hours between meals and small meals (snacks) was more than enough.

When I was trying to rein myself in, the Drip, Drip, Drip method had my back times a thousand.

This style of eating doesn’t just get us back on the smart path, it’s also marks the beginning of our first foray into having a conversation with our stomach. It’s an interesting back and forth that can result in your enormous human brain and your stomach getting on the same page. I use this method anytime I think I’ve gone too far afield. ♥

Pearl Two

The cavewoman refers to our survival instinct – some call it the lizard brain – who comes to life when we’re hungry. It’s the part of us who can’t eat one cookie, we need to eat the entire sleeve. Our cavewoman eats out of her grand kid’s trick-or-treat bag. She goes completely nuts when she’s out with the girls having a second strawberry margarita because yum. She drains savings accounts, she “forgets” to gas up the car, and she stays up late into the night reading. Our prefrontal brain watches in dismay as the cavewoman “lives her best life.” Once the cavewoman finally goes to sleep, the prefrontal brain cleans up the cavewoman’s many messes.

• Do you know what triggers your cavewoman and brings her to life? (Give three example or twenty-three examples.)
• How do you keep your cavewoman snoozing happily and not bothering you?
• How do you rebound after your cavewoman goes wild? How do you put her back to sleep.
• It’s the prefrontal part of our brain that deliver the results we most want. If you want to thank someone for your success, thank your enormous prefrontal.
• Can you feel the difference of your cavewoman (lives to eat, spend, and lounge) and your prefrontal (all business, being responsible and keeping order).
• Can you tell when you’re in one mode vs. the other?
• If your prefrontal could talk, what would she tell you?
• What scares your prefrontal
• What does she most want you to know?
• Can you tell when you’re in one mode vs. the other?
• If your prefrontal could talk, what would she tell you?
• What scares your prefrontal What does she most want you to know? ♥

Pearl Three

Sequencing is taken directly from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). The purpose of sequences is to help us move from reacting to circumstances to responding. I encourage you to do a sequence a day in your journal. Powerful stuff. Apply to your own life.

Knee-jerk Sequence

• Situation (very concrete): Your grandchild asks you to switch to a new app for family photos and messaging.
• Initial thought: “Oh, Lord. I’m so tired of learning new technology. Plus I much prefer to keep my information private.”
• Feeling: Annoyed at the very thought of learning more tech.
• Action: Tells her family, “I don’t think that would work very well for me. You know I’m a dinosaur, right?”
• Result: She asks her family to communicate in the style they’d all used in the past.

Chosen Sequence

• Situation (very concrete): Your grandchild asks you to switch to a new app for family photos and messaging.
• Chosen Thought:  Learning new tech to keep up with my grand kids is worth the annoyance.
• Feeling: Love for my family.
• Action: Researches the app and how it works, all the while telling herself, take it slow, we’ll figure this out. I don’t have to learn this all at once.
• Result: The whole family is on one app. ♥

Pearl Four

I have a delicious book-dessert for you today! Daughters of Shandong is a gripping historical novel set during the chaos of 1948 China. It follows a mother and three sisters as they navigate war, displacement, and danger, making a harrowing journey from Shandong to Hong Kong and eventually Taiwan. Eve J. Chung’s debut is a powerful story of courage, resilience, and the strength of family bonds. It’s based on her family’s experience. A don’t miss book-dessert. ♥

Pearl Five

How are you doing? What’s working and not working? What’s the hardest part of living on the Smart Eating Lifestyle? Please share in the comments below.

And if you enjoyed this post, please send it to a friend!

♥, Wendy

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Dropping our mask when we journal can bring our unconscious to life.

Pearl One

Wondering how to do the “dinner hour?” I mean, you make food and eat with your partner every evening, but now that you’re focused on losing for a lifetime you don’t know what to do about dinner. Learning how to prepare dinner for your partner or family while sticking to our smart Smart Eating Path is likely the hardest part of anyone’s day.

First a moment of therapy-talk.

“Individuation.”  It’s a term most closely associated with Carl Jung (we’re switching to using Jungian therapy for this pearl versus cognitive behavioral therapy like in pearl three).

Smart Vocab

At its core, individuation means the process of becoming your unique, whole you. It’s about differentiating yourself from cultural expectations, family patterns, and unconscious influences so you can integrate all parts of your conscious and unconscious.

• Differentiation: You separate who you truly are from the identities imposed by family, culture, or society.
• Integration: You acknowledge and incorporate different parts of you, including parts you may normally hide (what Jung called the shadow).
• Wholeness: Rather than striving for “perfection,” individuation is about becoming completely accepting of your contradictions, strengths, and weaknesses.
• Lifelong Process: It unfolds in stages across our life, especially during times of change (midlife was particularly emphasized by Jung).

Let me give you an extreme example.

Michael Phelps, the greatest medal-winning swimmer in Olympic history, famously ate 8,000 to 12,000 calories a day. Dinner alone could include several plates of spaghetti, often with tomato sauce or butter; chicken, fish, or steak, sometimes in multiple servings; large sandwiches stacked with meat, cheese, and condiments; vegetables; sometimes pizza or fries; and desserts like ice cream, protein bars, or individual chocolates.

Now, imagine being his girlfriend (who later became his wife) eating dinner with Phelps. No way could she eat along with him.

We automatically get that his girlfriend needs to approach dinner differently than Phelps. (Signs of individuation: Phelps is focused on winning the Olympic gold, while his girlfriend is maintaining her weight.)

So, what does Phelps eating dinner with his girlfriend mean to you and me? Everything. The Michael Phelps dinner is a perfect symbol to keep tucked away in our heart and brought out whenever needed. Phelps and his girlfriend both knew what they wanted in life and that impacted how they ate.

But — specifically — how does it influence how we eat smart with our partner or family? Well, the more individuated we strive to become, the more deeply we understand how vital our weight-wants are to us. And knowing how important our weight-loss is to us leads to better ways of handling dinner.

Said another way, the idea of prepping and eating family dinner is still an important component of family life, but when we choose smart eating, we’re really choosing our own self. You want to arrive at the dinner table thinking, “I MATTER.”

Specifics

With individuation in mind, this is what I’ve done specifically to preserve my loss: Before I prepared dinner of any kind, I would “eat before I eat” so that I didn’t graze as I made dinner. If I was still looking longingly at the garlic bread, I knew that I had to eat more grapes, cherries or yogurt. Reining in our hunger is a “must” habit to keep in our heart always.

As I went forward, I was always aware of feeling totally dedicated to smart eating and I positively talked to myself moment by moment as I made dinner and sat down to eat with everyone.

In the earliest days, I made food for the family and a separate meal for myself (usually brown rice and the stir fry in frozen at Costco), but I’d sit down with the family. As my maintenance-life developed, I eventually learned that I could handle preparing one dinner for the family and myself. So, if they were having lasagna, I was having lasagna although I’d only eat three bites. (We don’t need a full plate of food to quell our hunger) I’d skip the bread and eat a larger salad. Remember, I wasn’t hungry to begin with because I’d eaten before I sat down.

If there’s any trick to weight loss it’s this: eat before you eat and journal-write to learn more about who you truly are ♥

Pearl Two

Our writing prompt pearl. Tip: Aim to write freely and without judgment. The goal is to have a chat with our unconscious about the patterns in our life and eventually integrate them. The goal is not to produce perfect sentences. Just let go.

Grab your journal and a good pen and check out these questions.

• What parts of yourself do you feel are ignored or purposely suppressed, and how can embracing them move you closer to becoming a whole, individuated self? (Remember that we’re never done learning new things about ourself.)
• Which roles or masks do you wear in daily life, and how might shedding one or more help you live more authentically?
• What was dinner life like when you were a kid? A teen?
• When you were young what was expected of your mom dinner-wise?
• What do you expect of yourself now?
• Do your expectations work in your favor?
• Are you more likely to tell your partner that you’re eating smart from now on? Or will you keep it private and to yourself?
• Reflect on a life-changing event (something huge). How did it shape how you see yourself? Could there be a hidden lesson your unconscious is trying to reveal?
• Have your current self and your “wise inner guide” self talk together. What advice does she give? ♥

Pearl Three

Sequencing is taken directly from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). The purpose of sequences is to help us move from reacting to circumstances to responding. I encourage you to do a sequence a day in your journal. Powerful stuff. Apply to your own life.

Knee-jerk Sequence

• Situation: Eleanor is 64 and new to retirement. She’s ready to travel and have fun. But then her adult son asked her to care for his two kids during the day so his wife can work.
• Knee-jerk thought:  My son really needs me and I’ve always dropped everything for him and his brother.
• Feeling: Confused and sad.
• Action: Agrees to stay at house and watch her grand kids.
• Results: She vacillates between loving her grand kids to feeling put-upon because her son made the request.

Chosen Sequence

• Situation: Eleanor is 64 and new to retirement. She’s ready to travel and have fun. Then her adult son asked her to care for his two kids during the day so his wife can work.
• Chosen thought: It appears that I’ve done a little too much coddling of my boys. Family-life really matters of course, but I’ve worked hard all my life and I want to travel with my friends.
• Action: Eleanor sits down with her son and his wife and outlines how this arrangement of her watching the kids will work. She tells them what she’s willing to do.
• Result: In October, she’s cruising with friends to Italy. ♥

Pearl Four

I am halfway through The Names by Florence Knapp and it’s a can’t-put-down read. Florence Knapp’s clever story about how a single choice shapes a life grabbed me from page one.. No surprise it’s now on the bestseller list and is being translated into twenty languages.

Trigger warning: The Names doesn’t get gruesome at all, but there’s short references to both emotional and physical abuse.

The Names is absolutely a five-star book-dessert. ♥

Pearl Five

Welcome to September! This is what I call the “season of many shoes” because one day might mean sandals while another day might be cold enough for boots.

And if you enjoyed this post, please send it to a friend!

♥, Wendy

You know the scoop: I’m an Amazon affiliate. If you buy from a link in my post, I’ll receive money, but the arrangement won’t cost you a dime.

Are you new to the Inspired Eater? Welcome!! This blog won’t make much sense until you first read the Aunt Bea post (and you’ll find Aunt Bea on this page to the right under my short bio). On your cell you’ll see it immediately following the first post. After you enter your email address, the Aunt Bea article will be sent to your email’s inbox. If it’s not there, you might check the spam folder. And always feel free to email me at Wendy@TheInspiredEater.com and I’ll get Aunt Bea right to you!!

I am not an expert, doctor, surgeon, nurse, dietician, or nutritionist: the information within TheInspiredEater.com is based solely on my personal experience and is not intended to be used as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.