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Feeling Torn About Diet Meds? You’re Not Alone

Snuggly Winters

Do you lead from your external life or from your internal?

Snuggly Winters

I Have Two PhDs. I’m Smart. Why Can’t I Make this Work?

Snuggly Winters

We Were Being Infantilized. The Truth About Losing Weight After Age 50

January 5, 2024
In December + Holiday Eating

Happy New Year!! Now Let’s Talk Losing Weight After Age 50

December 29, 2023 4 Comments

Always your best bet: Brut Champagne (lowest calorie drink going) Pearl One Happy New Year Thrivers!!, of course, but today I’m feeling annoyed. I don’t know if you’ve…

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In December + Holiday Eating

7 Ways I’m Eating Over the Holiday Weekend (I’d pick a fave, but they’re all heavy lifters)

December 22, 2023 4 Comments

Beautifully presented “little bites” are one of the secrets to successfully losing and preserving. Pearl One The Big Weekend is upon us and I’m hoping you’ll join me as we head into the holiday’s endless food buffet with great tools that work well when we bring them to life. This is exactly what I will

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In December + Holiday Eating

The One Thought that Keeps Every Super Successful Person Winning Again and Again

December 15, 2023 5 Comments

Don’t take holiday stress lying down: unless you’re lying in a bath or bed with a phenomenal book. Happy December Thrivers! I still need to get my niece…

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In December + Holiday Eating

The Ultimate Holiday Drink Guide for Smart Eaters!

December 10, 2023 2 Comments

This article originally appeared in SixtyandMe. Turns out, maintaining a 55-pound weight loss – after age 50 – isn’t as easy as one might think. Especially in December.…

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In December + Holiday Eating

How a December Playbook Allows Us to Sail Over the Avalanche of Holiday Calories

December 8, 2023 No Comments

This is how to use the calories: make them into a wreath and hang them on the door! Pearl One I’m often asked, “do you stick to smart…

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In December + Holiday Eating

The Greatest Question I Ask Myself to Survive the Season of Calories

December 1, 2023 2 Comments

There’s more to Christmas then eating every calorie in sight. Start with the fur-kids. Pearl One Happy December, Thrivers! I think this one will be a heavy-lifter. ♥…

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In December + Holiday Eating

The Inspired Eater 2023 Holiday Book-Dessert Gift Guide (for kids too)

November 27, 2023 No Comments

Some people are just flat-out hard to buy for, but give them a book on their favorite topic, and watch the explosion of smiles! I’ve read all of…

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In November + Thanksgiving

3 Eating Plans & My Thoughts on Each (the last being the rare jewel)

November 24, 2023 No Comments

Pearl One A dear friend and I did a “girlfriend’s cruise” together. Over lunch one day, she asked what I thought about intuitive eating, and in a flash…

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In November + Thanksgiving

How to Prove to Your Brain that the Eating Free-for-All is Over

November 10, 2023 No Comments

Your powerful brain is watching everything you do. Pearl One Years ago, I was driving with my parents and my two boys in our van and I guess…

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In Cozy Falls

Words Matter. (How to Focus Your Mind for Long-Term Weight Loss Success)

October 27, 2023 No Comments

You and I are works of art in progress. We learn as we go. Hello Thrivers! I have to say, it’s been a tough week. Looking forward to…

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In Cozy Falls

Going Rogue is Required for Long Term Weight Loss Success

October 20, 2023 2 Comments

It’s hard to know whether a new handbag is buy-able without a budget & why this matters to us. Hello Thrivers!! Can I brag for a second? I’m…

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In Cozy Falls

This One Strategy — Done Daily — Makes a Huge Difference When Losing Weight After 50

October 13, 2023 No Comments

A forever-habit that will always have our back. Hello Thrivers! Mid-October is the perfect time to say to friends and family, “please no food gifts in December.” And…

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In Cozy Falls

How I Ditched Insomnia & a Thriver’s Rock Star Story

October 6, 2023 No Comments

She’s baaack! After an illness lead her into the land of high-calories, she hopped right back onto the Smart Eating Path. Consider it our super power to rebound…

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In Cozy Falls

Why the Body Positivity Movement Most Hurts Those They’re Trying to Help

September 29, 2023 2 Comments

Vets call my cats overweight. So, I feed them pricey diet food which they sniff at, take a taste of & then throw up. Hello Thrivers! I hope…

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In Cozy Falls

Can’t Get Traction on Smart Eating? Have a Quick Read

September 22, 2023 No Comments

Pearl One Remember the time you went out for a birthday dinner with a dear friend, ate a lot of food and “wrecked everything”? (You were all, “Well,…

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In Cozy Falls

If You Can’t Beat Them, Join Them? How Friends Can Tank your ‘Tude

September 15, 2023 1 Comment

Admittedly I do have friends who overeat as much as they possibly can: They’re called darling f Pearl One Hello Thivers! A casual friend who was an eating-buddy…

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In Cozy Falls

How to Make Your Weight Loss Life a Lot Easier on Yourself

September 8, 2023 No Comments

There’s nothing easy, tranquil, or beautiful about losing weight after fifty, but specific tools can make it less annoying. Hello Thrivers! I’m looking around my home thinking that…

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In Cozy Falls

How Trader Joe’s & Costco Makes My Life So Much Tastier

September 1, 2023 No Comments

It’s not just a “nice idea” to know which smart foods you love. It’s imperative to your success. Period. End of story. Dear Thrivers, These are my two…

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In Endless Summers

Is There Ever a Good Enough Reason to Ditch Your Smart Eating Habits?

August 25, 2023 No Comments

Hello Thrivers, Is it just me, or have we had the best cherry crop ever this summer? Get them while they’re still tasty: cherries, corn on the cob,…

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In Endless Summers

The 7 Myths About a Forever Weight Loss

August 11, 2023 2 Comments

Between Team Yum!! and Team Self-Control: who do you think will be the victor? Hello my thriving friends! At the risk of repeating myself, this is such a…

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In Endless Summers

How this One Terrible Move Can Mess Everything Up When We’re Losing After Fifty

August 4, 2023 15 Comments

No fuss, no drama. Sometimes we just need to quietly remove ourselves from the situation when others are being rude. Hi Thrivers!! Holy cow, you guys. I’m on…

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In Cozy Falls

The Cutting-Edge Image that will Fuel Preserving Your Weight Loss Forever & Always

July 29, 2023 No Comments

Hello Thrivers!! It is so exciting to hear about your successes! I’m also hearing how frustrated you are once you’re in the preserving-the-loss mode. This is where the…

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In Endless Summers

The White-Tie Place to Start When We’re Losing After Fifty

July 28, 2023 12 Comments

Especially when we’re well over fifty we can say, “You know what? Time for something new and amazing just for me.” Pearl One I want you to know…

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In Endless Summers

Yes, Losing Weight After Age Fifty Can Be a Beautiful Success

July 27, 2023 No Comments

Flourishing after age fifty is a real thing. Owning your “flourish” allows youto feel like you belong with the billions of us trekking the Smart Eating Path. Pearl…

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In Endless Summers

She Said: I Want a Forever Weight-Loss. Do the Cravings Really Go Away?

July 21, 2023 11 Comments

Many high caloric foods have dropped off my radar entirely, except for this one little ingredient. Hello Everyone! I’m coming to you from oven-central. I know. It’s hot…

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In Endless Summers

Why These Two Summer Starbucks Drinks Are To-Don’ts When We’re Losing After Fifty

July 15, 2023 No Comments

Happy End of May, Thrivers!Let’s get right to it. Pearl One I don’t have a thing against Starbucks, per se. I’m just not wild about any fast-food drive-thrus…

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In Endless Summers

Said Daily These Two Words Will Transform Your Losing After Fifty Trek

July 14, 2023 4 Comments

Our daily motto: full immersion. Full immersion. Full immersion. Say it often and in time your brain will latch on and begin to make better smart eating choices.…

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In Endless Summers

How to Break Three Eating Habits that Trip Us All Up

July 10, 2023 5 Comments

Is drawing more elegance into your life even on your radar? You’re likely low in Vitamin Elegance and here’s why we need to prioritize this beautiful intention. Hello…

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In Endless Summers

The Superpower of Massive Action, new Costco Find & A Spectacular Book-Dessert

July 2, 2023 12 Comments

Hi Thrivers, I swear, get to a certain age and you spend half your life in the doctor’s office. 🙂 ♥ Pearl One is from an earlier post.…

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In Endless Summers

Here’s Why the Eating “Experts” Differ on Best Way to Eat for Health

July 1, 2023 No Comments

If you’re tempted this weekend, just remind yourself you can have your treat in the morning with coffee. Still want 4th of July dessert? Think: pretty popsicles, macaroni…

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In Endless Summers

A Hack to Stop Your Next Food Free-for-All

June 25, 2023 10 Comments

How to find the treasure in your next binge or overeat. Pearl One When this smart eating hack occurred to me, it practically knocked my flip-flops off. Let’s…

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In Breathtaking Springs

Why Customizing How You Eat Is Better for Losing After 50

April 24, 2023 8 Comments

We customize our lips: I wear a pink lip. You’ve always looked awesome in red. Hello Thrivers!I emailed a friend, “I’m pet sitting alone this weekend (two darling…

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In Breathtaking Springs

Tools for Weight Loss After Age 50

April 17, 2023 No Comments

Okay, I’m down to the wire. If anyone tells you that writing a book is a breeze, they’re off their rocker.So Easter is Sunday and my boys’ birthday…

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In Snuggly Winters

Inspiration for Weight Loss After 50 from Lisa Kudrow!!

March 10, 2023 2 Comments

Lisa and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Phone Call Pearl One Did you know that Lisa Kudrow was rejected by Saturday Night Live in 1990? Four…

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In Snuggly Winters

7 Pieces of Advice I Wish I’d Had when I Started Losing in Earnest (chunked down)

February 10, 2023 7 Comments

First we create good-enough success, then comes the confidence. We circle back around, create good enough again and more confident ensues. Compounding confidence, it’s slow, steady, and totally…

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In Snuggly Winters

How the Super Successful Spring Back to Life After an Embarrassing Set-Back

February 3, 2023 6 Comments

Weebles wable but they don’t fall down Hello Thrivers! I’ve been begging my computer to work all day, if you’re reading this I haven’t yet chucked it off…

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In Snuggly Winters

How I Conquered Inertia and Slayed Overeating

January 27, 2023 3 Comments

Did you know that the opposite of couch-potato inertia is Latin dancing? Well, it should be! Pearl One Our cave woman likes to think she knows everything, but…

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In Snuggly Winters

My Favorite – Can’t Live Without — Strategies for Losing after 50

January 20, 2023 4 Comments

Capital “LOVE” is for our peeps, furry babies and coffee. Lowercase “love” is for food. Beautiful rustic sign from FarmhouseDecorArt. Hey Everyone! Let’s get right to it! Pearl…

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In Snuggly Winters

A Fib or Honesty: Which Works Best for Weight Loss? 101

January 13, 2023 6 Comments

Everything exquisite is much, much harder than it looks. Wreath by theSplendidDoor Pearl One I’ve said, you’ve said, we’ve all said, “I’m going on a diet.” As if…

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In Snuggly Winters

5 Ways to Rehab Resolution Burn-Out

January 6, 2023 26 Comments

Pearl One Back in the day, I always felt a surge of excitement when I’d start my “diet” whether it was on a Monday morning, at the beginning…

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In Uncategorized

The Ultimate Guide to Dealing with Your Eeyore (the Cliffs Notes version)

December 30, 2022 12 Comments

Maintain the mystery. Protect your passion. Shun sharing with your Eeyore. Pearl One He’s cute and pathetic, and has the sweetest pink bow on his tail. We might…

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In Uncategorized

Is it Really the December Holidays if we’re Not Overeating or Over Drinking?

December 16, 2022 8 Comments

Yes, Virginia, we can have tasty cocktails in December. Photo by shche_ team on Unsplash Hey All! I’m sorry that I’m so late today (I blame December). Pearl…

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In Uncategorized

What Does Laura & Mary Have to do with Us? (Not what you think.)

December 9, 2022 No Comments

One thing the Little House girls would instantly recognize in our living room: the candy cane. Pearl One Remember Laura and Mary being dumbstruck at finding an orange,…

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In Cozy Falls

How a Master at Losing Weight After Age 50 Drops the Drama

November 18, 2022 10 Comments

When we were teens, drama was fine. But today, kick the drama and be curious instead. Pearl One Meet a friend who lost 49 pounds and has kept…

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In Uncategorized

How Do-Able Mind-Shifts Move the Scale when we’re Losing after 50

November 11, 2022 6 Comments

Pearl One I’ve long thought that our world is so the Jetsons: cutting-edge and very cool. I mean, we’re rich in brilliance personified like Maria Beasley (invented life…

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In Uncategorized

How to Lose “the Shame” after You’ve Gone Cookie Monster on your Lifestyle

November 4, 2022 15 Comments

We all go a little south more often than we want to admit. Pearl One Somewhere within our fad-diet loving culture we accepted the notion that our response…

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In Uncategorized

How Stacking your Successes Puts You in the Driver’s Seat

October 28, 2022 10 Comments

Chart your growth, pretend that you’re teaching others about how you’ve done it because one day they’ll ask. Pearl One You and I aren’t 22. And though we’ve…

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In Uncategorized

This is Essential when Playing the Long Game at Losing After 50.

October 20, 2022 19 Comments

Photo by Rhett Wesley on Unsplash Hello Thrivers! Whichever beautiful country you’re reading this from, I hope it finds you cozy. I should add that I’m trying not…

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In Uncategorized

Getting to the Heart of Making Great Food Decisions

October 14, 2022 20 Comments

Step away from the pizza and wine, and nobody’s Smart Eating Lifestyle gets hurt. Pearl One I listen often to the Two Disabled Dude’s podcast that’s tagline reads,…

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In Uncategorized

I’m Asked: How Do You Stay Positive? Voila, my own Invention

October 7, 2022 4 Comments

Photo by Reynier Carl on Unsplash Hello Thrivers, The price of everything is skyrocketing. We’ve started shopping at Aldis again. If you have a way to save money,…

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In Cozy Falls

Why to Make Eating Well one of Your Highest Priorities

September 30, 2022 2 Comments

Happy Friday, Thrivers!! It’s been pointed out to me that my posts are too long. So I planned to keep this post short. I’ll do better next week.…

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In December + Holiday Eating

Making it through the First Week. Accept the difficulty.

September 23, 2022 8 Comments

A sugar-addict can find her fix anywhere. Just saying. Photo by Wouter Supardi Salari on Unsplash Pearl One I have a dear friend who has a rare disease…

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In Uncategorized

It Wasn’t Pretty. Three Donuts and Me and a Thriver’s Amazing Success Story

September 16, 2022 12 Comments

Pearl One In the initial years of twin babies, I knew a bunch of moms because our little people played together in the local park’s sandbox. At the…

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In Uncategorized

Why to “Give it All You’ve Got!” with No Apology & Have You Heard of Wad-Able Food?

September 9, 2022 15 Comments

Pearl Three: shhh! Don’t awaken the cave woman. Photo by Raphael Lovaski on Unsplash Pearl One Forty-two years ago, the Tahoe slope that morning was practically empty. I’d…

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In Uncategorized

The Art of Failure & and How It Can Uplevel Your Life

August 27, 2022 11 Comments

Hello Thrivers! August has me doing the annual doctors: pap, mammogram, shingles vaccines. (We had two vibrant young women in our extended family die of cancer. Just 38…

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In Uncategorized

A Step-by-Step on How to Ditch a Poor Eating Habit

August 27, 2022 6 Comments

When you embed a new habit into your heart you’re becoming a new version of you. Pearl One Back when yo-yo-ing was my lifestyle, I would never have…

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In Uncategorized

How to Conquer Your Evening Sugar Cravings

August 27, 2022 17 Comments

Hello everyone! If sugar is on your last nerve, read on! Pearl One Craving treats in the evening plagued me for years. I’d tried everything I could think…

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In Endless Summers

Why You Need to Master this Mindset When Losing After 50

August 26, 2022 26 Comments

My go-to when running errands. . If you too require a shopping-gown, these Pearls are for you. Happy Friday, Thrivers! I am hearing from so many Thrivers that…

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In Uncategorized

How to Make Today’s Economy Work in Your Weight Loss Favor

August 20, 2022 16 Comments

Pearl Two talks about the best way I know to bring more nurturing into our creative lives. Welcome to Friday, Thrivers! If you’re new to living a thriving…

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In Uncategorized

Holidays on Horizon. Hands! Who’s Up for a Health & Weight Loss Challenge?

August 5, 2022 15 Comments

Gorgeous snow dress found at FreyaArtAtelier. Hello Thrivers! As you know, I’m not a fan of “losing for Thanksgiving,” where after the guests go home we head for…

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In Uncategorized

How to Cope when All You Want to Do is Eat & My Aha Moment

June 29, 2022 12 Comments

Not me. Pearl One You and I share something in common: we eat because we’re emotionally not doing well. We might be really down, frantic, furious, or even…

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In Uncategorized

How to Ensure We’re Winning at the Long Game When Losing After 50

June 17, 2022 13 Comments

He was using intermittent fasting, but eating half of an entire cherry pie during his “open eating window.” Photo by Photo by Brooke Lark on Unsplash Hello Thrivers!…

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In Uncategorized

Why Strengthening Our ‘Why’ is the Portal to Weight Loss After 50

June 10, 2022 6 Comments

Nothing gets me up at zero dark thirty, except for this one thing. Hello Thrivers! Have you read the Aunt Bea booklet? It’s important to read her or…

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In Endless Summers

How an Innocent Bag of M&Ms will likely Save Your Marriage & My Go-To Summer Dinner

June 8, 2022 10 Comments

One of my favorite parts of summer. Photo by ShengGeng Lin on Unsplash Hello Thrivers! If you’re brand new to The Inspired Eater welcome! If you haven’t yet…

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In Uncategorized

Get Excited! How the Cycle of Overeating is a Life-Changer

June 5, 2022 12 Comments

Please let’s forget the past the future looks bright ahead! Let’s live differently, riskier, happier. Hello Everyone! Welcome to April! As always it’s important to read the Aunt…

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In Uncategorized

The OMG Ice Cream Hack & the Poison of Perfectionism

June 3, 2022 6 Comments

.Hello Trippers, Are you new to the Inspired Eater? Welcome!! This blog won’t make much sense until you read the Aunt Bea post (you’ll find her to the…

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In Uncategorized

Protecting Our New Habits Requires a Lot of Love and a Gentle Touch

May 27, 2022 6 Comments

Our developing habits are as precious and fragile as a small kitten. Photo by The Lucky Neko on Unsplash Does it help to know that you’re not alone?…

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In Uncategorized

The Power of an Epiphany & How a 73-Year-Old Slayed 30 lbs.

May 27, 2022 4 Comments

Beautiful wreath at Notable Wreaths. Dear Thrivers, Are you new to the Inspired Eater? Welcome!! This blog won’t make much sense until you read the Aunt Bea post…

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In Uncategorized

Transforming After 50 is Not Easy (let’s do it together anyway)

May 25, 2022 40 Comments

Beautiful rings and photos by Lindsay from INDVapparel. Pearl One As I slowly lost 55, I was only beginning to learn how to put food into its proper…

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In Uncategorized

Breaking the Habit You Didn’t Know You Had

May 20, 2022 6 Comments

A cool new habit can throw a bad habit off the cliff! Hello Thrivers!! I’ve returned from an exhausting week. Nothing bad to report except two very long…

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In Cozy Falls

The Best Question to Ask Yourself Throughout a Successful Day

May 4, 2022 21 Comments

Did you see the movie with Meryl Streep — Defending Your Life — where she dies and lands in limbo featuring food with zero calories? Streep’s Julia happily…

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In Uncategorized

How to Thrive When we’re Losing Weight after 50, 60, 70 & 80

April 29, 2022 2 Comments

Three to 400 years old, we’re spring chickens compared to this thriving Charleston treasure. Happy Friday Thrivers! I hope these pearls find you enjoying a peaceful spring day.…

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In Uncategorized

Discovering the Magic Required to Lose After 50

April 22, 2022 5 Comments

Now here’s a habit I could happily instill! 🙂 Happy Friday Thrivers, If you haven’t read the Aunt Bea booklet, she’s a must. You’ll find her to your…

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In Breathtaking Springs

How to Side-Step the Easter Calories, Low-Cost Travel & My New Workout

April 15, 2022 5 Comments

This breathtaking wreath is from the 5-star Etsy shop called TwoInpsireYou. Hello Thrivers, First, have you read the Aunt Bea booklet? You’ll find her to your right in…

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In Uncategorized

How Getting Radically Truthful Delivers Massive Wins

April 1, 2022 2 Comments

Aren’t these calories beautiful? Yep, that’s how they lure us. Hello Everyone, If you haven’t yet read Aunt Bea, just shoot me an email: Wendy@TheInspiredEater.com and I’ll get…

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In Uncategorized

Five Pearls to Fuel Losing After 50

March 25, 2022 4 Comments

No spoilers, but Betty Draper spits out her whipped cream. This blog won’t make sense until you read the Aunt Bea booklet (you’ll find her on this page…

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In Uncategorized

This Reader, 64, Lost Weight & Look at Her Doctor’s Reaction

March 18, 2022 6 Comments

Hello Everyone, As always if you haven’t yet read Aunt Bea, the how-to is underneath by short bio on the right of the screen, but you can always…

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In Uncategorized

How to Shift Our Thinking when Losing After 50

March 11, 2022 2 Comments

Hi Everyone, If you’re brand new to the Inspired Eater, look to your right. Underneath my round photo and short bio is how to access the Aunt Bea…

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In Uncategorized

Life Altering News When We’re Losing & Maintaining After 50

March 4, 2022 11 Comments

Me cuddling my River. Have you seen the meme, “What do you mean ‘I’m not a people?’ You tell everyone I’m your baby.” Hi All! Many have asked…

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In Snuggly Winters

How to Set Ourselves Up for Success When Losing after 50

February 11, 2022 4 Comments

If I’m out-and-about I always, always, always take smart food in my purse or tote. Pearl One Even as a teen I could see that the women’s magazines…

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In Snuggly Winters

How to Use the Beauty of Time When Losing After 50

January 28, 2022 6 Comments

Hi Everyone! I love hearing that so many of you are having success with the mind-shifts! Wonderful news!! Onto the pearls. Pearl One Today we’re revisiting Aunt Bea…

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In Uncategorized

How to Apply Your Skills & Talent to Losing After 50

December 31, 2021 4 Comments

Get to know you through the seeming magic of journaling. Watch the gems spill forth. Hello Everyone! The last day of 2021!! Pearl One Today, let’s talk about…

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In Uncategorized

Do You Care that You’re FED UP Trying to Lose After Menopause?

December 27, 2021 8 Comments

Amazing dress and photo by FloAtelier Years ago I was heading out to garage sales in a pair of jeans that cut me at the middle (what was…

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In Uncategorized

The Good, the Bad, and the Pot Belly When Losing After 50

December 17, 2021 18 Comments

Beautiful holiday dress and photo by Amordress. We made it to Friday!! Go us! Pearl One Once Upon a Time the powers-that-be thought they knew the truth. (It…

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In December + Holiday Eating

How to Protect Your Losses from the Onslaught of Holiday Calories

December 10, 2021 18 Comments

Stunning sugar cookies and photo by VelvetRavenCookieCo. Happy Friday! Pearl One Where did we get the idea that losing “should be” easy or at least easier? How was…

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In Uncategorized

Holiday-Calories are Not the Boss of Us

December 1, 2021 31 Comments

You see the problem. Happy Friday! We have a lot of new people, so consider some pearls to be an awesome refresher. 🙂 And don’t miss Pearl Four.…

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In Cozy Falls

A Gift Guide & Classic Wisdom for our Losing After 50 Trek

November 26, 2021 36 Comments

Happy Friday, All! Let me know how you’re doing with the long weekend! Pearl One I’m currently knee-deep in 1938 Manhattan. A Rolls Royce with driver, a glittering…

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In Cozy Falls

How To Do “the Impossible” When We’re Losing After 50

November 12, 2021 31 Comments

Photo by Pexel. Happy Friday! My backyard at the moment is blanketed in 14-karat gold leaf (the picture is not my backyard.) It looks like a movie set.…

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In November + Thanksgiving

See Ya Sweat Pants! Don’t Want to Be Ya Over the Thanksgiving Weekend

November 3, 2021 23 Comments

Snuggly “No Days Off” cozy-wear & photo by CharlotteChanelllc Hi Everyone! Happy Friday! Pearl One The latest saying goes, Gobble till you Wobble. Yeah, no. Overindulging on Thanksgiving…

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In Cozy Falls

Narcissism & You: How it Impacts Losing After 50

October 22, 2021 8 Comments

Denim card holder & photo by Melissa at MemoriesByQueenBee I’ve tried to write this post at least twice, but stopped worried that you might take this pearl the…

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In Uncategorized

Losing After 50: How Being Different Makes All the Difference

October 15, 2021 27 Comments

Gorgeous dress and photo by Art4Apparel Pearl One Are you okay with being different? I sure wasn’t. We moved enough when I was young, and I was terrible…

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In Uncategorized

Losing After 50. Are You a Good Witch or a Bad Witch?

October 8, 2021 19 Comments

Cupcake-topper witch legs and photo are from SillyLittleSquirrels. Happy Friday Everyone! Pearl One Waiting for my husband in Costco’s food court, I was being nosy checking out each…

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In Cozy Falls

If Everyone is Eating-Large, How Am I Ever Going to Lose?

October 1, 2021 16 Comments

Pearl # 1 You and I evolved to be part of a pack. We’re not meant to be loners, and those of us who are, aren’t doing well.…

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In Cozy Falls

How to Not Feed the Feelings as We Lose After 50

September 28, 2021 23 Comments

Emotional Eating. For those of us who grew up in a challenging childhood, food was a whole new ballgame: we grew up using food as a substitute for…

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In Uncategorized

How to Keep it Small & Sane As We Lose for the Holidays

September 24, 2021 27 Comments

Photo and darling pumpkins by TildaLovesTeddy. Happy Friday, everyone! Losing weight for the long run. This time? We’re shooting for permanent results. Pearl # 1 We’ve been told…

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In Uncategorized

6 Tools that Gorgeous-Up Life When We’re Losing After 50. (And Why It Matters.)

September 21, 2021 13 Comments

I’ve written about “Why Pretty Matters” for ourselves in this post here. But today we’re talking why pretty matters in our surroundings. When we’re over 50 and attempting…

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In Uncategorized

5 Pearls: My Wrinkles, My Self-Sabotage, & My Best Fitness Hack Ever

September 17, 2021 16 Comments

Photo, gorgeous phone case, (& more bejeweled pieces) are by celdeconail. Pearl # 1 Full disclosure: There is a wrinkle to losing after 50. Back when I was…

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In Uncategorized

The Crucial Mind Shift When We’re Losing After 50

September 14, 2021 9 Comments

One morning long ago, my husband practically pranced into the house with a pink box, opened the lid and asked, “Want a donut?” At the time, I’d lost…

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In Cozy Falls

Five Pearls for Crushing It As We Lose After 50

September 10, 2021 22 Comments

Meeko, 10, is the supermodel for The Chic Dog Boutique ‘s stunning doggie jewelry collection. I’ve noticed that so many of us love animals. But I promise. This…

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Cozy Falls

How I Lost Weight While Living with — and Loving — A Scarfer

September 7, 2021
In Loooong Weekends

How to Not Over Do It — A Solid Fix When Losing After 50

September 2, 2021 20 Comments

Let’s talk pearls. 🙂 Pearl # 1 Your Three-Day Weekend Survival Kit If three-day weekends end up being “must consume mass quantities” (SNL, Coneheads), you’re not alone. Long…

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In November + Thanksgiving

3 Steps to Navigating Get-Togethers When Losing After 50

August 29, 2021 11 Comments

To lose/maintain after age 50, we need to learn how to make a gazillion micro-decisions. Here’s one that trips everyone up. A reader writes: We have a large…

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In Uncategorized

5 Pearls for Losing As We Wave Good-Bye to Summer

August 27, 2021 18 Comments

Pearl # 1 I realize I might sound like a weirdo, but I love thinking about self-sabotage. It’s so interesting to me how insidious self-sabotage thoughts can be…

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In Uncategorized

Losing Pounds After Menopause & Delish Green Smoothie Recipe

August 20, 2021 20 Comments

Every Friday I share “five pearls” for our weekend. 🙂 Pearl # 1 A childhood friend was visiting from California. Because she’s a workout-lover I was excited to…

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In Uncategorized

Why Embracing a Plateau is So Critical for Forever Weight Loss

August 17, 2021 15 Comments

Learning to chill when our weight plateaus is a vital mind-shift to make. We’re ahead of the curve, the experts will figure it out one day. Last week…

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In Uncategorized

Are You Trying to Lose Weight at Amazon-Speed? What Ditching the Notion Does For You

August 13, 2021 32 Comments

Every Friday I share “five pearls” for your weekend. 🙂 Pearl # 1 Every summer as a kid, my grandpa would haul out an old-fashioned hand-crank ice cream…

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In Uncategorized

How to Tap the Wisdom of Future-You For Successful Losing

August 9, 2021 24 Comments

In 2013 after a decade of progressing symptoms, Linda Ronstadt was diagnosed initially with Parkinson’s, and finally with progressive supranuclear palsy, a rare degenerative condition. She’s now mostly…

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In Uncategorized

How – And Why — to Go Mama Bear on Your Smart Eating Plan

August 2, 2021 40 Comments

One December morning I pulled my van into the Trader Joe’s parking lot with my twin six month olds in their car seats. I parked, stepped out of…

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In Endless Summers

How to Play the Hunger-Game When We’re Over 50

July 25, 2021 8 Comments

When I was 13 my grandma who grew up in Texas told me about picking cotton, and how she and her siblings would play dolls when the adults…

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In Endless Summers

Losing After 50: The Honeymoon & The Messy Middle

July 19, 2021 29 Comments

Vintage honeymoons of old seem quaint by modern standards. Back in the day, two young people – say a Laura and Rob Petri type — had a sweet…

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    After a lifetime of weight issues -- a family member once said I looked like Santa -- I lost 55 lbs. by my early 40s. As a former therapist, I created this blog to share with women over 50 the granular steps, hacks and thinking shifts I used to maintain for 18 years now (I'm currently 60). This blog is not about shaming. It's about learning how to thrive at your preferred weight. Quite hard. Seriously do-able. ♥♥♥

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